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Entrepreneurs Who Give More, Get More

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Just so we are clear, there is nothing wrong with being a little selfish.

As a business owner, you have a lot of responsibility (employees, customers, the tax man) and frankly most of the time, you will have to put the business and your own interests first and foremost. Otherwise you will not be around to take care of your responsibilities!

But there is another side to this that truly successful entrepreneurs embrace – a side that is about giving rather than being selfish and single minded.

These entrepreneurs understand that the more generous you are with your time, energy, and expertise the quicker you will accomplish your personal and business goals.

The more you give, the more you get.

Don’t believe me? Keep reading and I’ll explain.

Entrepreneurs Who Give More, Get More

Entrepreneurs Who Give More, Get More

In Business and in Life, Helping People is the Key to Success

The more you help others to get what they want, the more successful and happy you will be.

“It is one of the most beautiful compensations of this life that no man can sincerely try to help another without helping himself.”

Ralph Waldo Emerson

There’s a common misconception that in order to get ahead in business, you have to lie, cheat, steal, and otherwise step on a lot of other people on the way up.

That may be true in the corporate world, but the opposite is true with most businesses. The more people a company helps, the more people will patronize that company and share it with their friends and colleagues.

“The easiest way to get what you want is to help others get what they want.”

Deepak Chopra

The more value you provide, the more you’re worth. So focus your business effort on helping other people and businesses succeed.

People Tend to Return Favors

There are certain rules that we all follow.

In Influence: The Psychology of Persuasion, Robert Cialdini discusses something that he calls the rule of reciprocation.

According to Cialdini…

The rule says that we should try to repay, in kind, what another person has provided us.”

I’m sure you’ve felt that powerful sense of obligation when someone goes out of their way to do something nice for you. You feel instinctively compelled to balance the scale with a return favor of your own.

This feeling of indebtedness goes back to the earliest stages of human society, when people began sharing resources and skills in order to thrive. Today, there’s not a single human society that doesn’t follow the rule of reciprocation (according to the research of sociologist Alvin Gouldner).

How can you apply this in your business? Go above and beyond when working with other companies. Provide a service for free or promote them without asking for anything in return. When the time is right, those businesses will do whatever they can to return the favor.

Giving opens up your Network

Nothing has contributed more to the growth of my personal business than my network. Almost all of our clients have come from personal connections or referrals.

The larger and more powerful your network, the easier it will be for you to achieve success. But how do begin making meaningful connections – especially with people who are higher-up on the food chain than you?

One way is to make an introduction to somebody in the form of a generous gift.

I can tell you a story about this method of networking that illustrates how it can be effective:

A couple of years ago, the website of an influential technology blogger was taken down by a hacker. The top-tier blogger was lamenting his site’s crash on Twitter when he received a message from one of his followers.

The follower was a young programmer and he had decided to look at the website to see how it had been hacked. He presented the blogger with exact instructions for how to prevent another hacker from taking the site down in the future.

That advice was worth thousands of dollars to the blogger, but the programmer didn’t ask for anything in return. Instead, he earned himself a high-profile connection. You can try the same thing to establish valuable new business relationships in your field.

Word Spreads Fast

Doing business is commonplace. It happens every day.

Being given something is a little bit more exceptional. The exchange becomes a story that we’re more likely to share with friends and colleagues.

Just last week, I was given a stick of Bruce Spruce’s “man balm.” A few hours later, I found that I was telling my friend about receiving the lip balm. Without even realizing it, I was doing word of mouth marketing for this company.

A good story is also at the core of journalism. As you read this, thousands of magazine and newspaper writers are frantically searching for a story to meet tomorrow’s deadline.

Every business would like that next article to be written about them. Periodicals have huge readerships, so being featured in one generates new leads and a burst of traffic to your website.

But offering a product or a service for a price isn’t much of a story. Giving away that product or service to a worthy cause, on the other hand, is much more newsworthy. When your business takes part in a charitable deed, you increase your chances of being featured in the press.

So if you’re looking to raise your profile, try giving back to your local community. Not only will word spread about your business, the story will be about making it a positive impact.


“No man who continues to add something to the material, intellectual and moral well-being of the place in which he lives is left long without proper reward”

Booker T. Washington

Karma is an ancient Indian concept that links a person’s actions to their destiny. In western culture, it’s often understood as “what goes around comes around” or “you reap what you sow.”

Some people seem to think of karma as a spiritual scoreboard that keeps track of our every deed. Everything we do, good or bad, is perfectly accounted for and dealt back to us in time. If this were true, then we could just give, give, give and then sit back and wait for karma to come calling with a heap of great stuff in return.

You may not believe in karma as an all-knowing spiritual force, but you have to recognize that events are not isolated. When something good happens, it tends to cause more good things to happen, which in turn cause even more good things to happen… and on and on and on. Unfortunately, the same is true of negative events.

When you realize that events are interlinked, you begin to realize how important it is to be kind and compassionate in your daily life. If you’re always doing good actions, then your whole life will be surrounded by patterns of positive events. Even though you may not always see the benefit of your good actions, you will have good karma overall.

Giving Makes You Happy

entrepreneurs give more get more

When we’re happy, we’re more productive. As entrepreneurs, we’re the engine of our businesses, so it’s especially important that we stay happy and productive.

One measurement of happiness is the level of the neurotransmitter serotonin. Natural methods of raising serotonin involve exercising regularly, eating certain foods (e.g. almonds), and performing acts of kindness.

That’s right: making other people happier makes us happier.

“If you want others to be happy, practice compassion. If you want to be happy, practice compassion.”

Dalai Lama

Next time you’re feeling down on your business, try giving a little bit of time and energy to do something nice for somebody else.

It Makes the World a Better Place

“How wonderful it is that nobody need wait a single moment before starting to improve the world.”

Anne Frank

Up to this point, all my reasons have gone back to personal benefit. I’ve tried to explain how acting in the interest of others is really acting in self-interest. In other words, I’ve been appealing to that always-loud voice in our heads that asks, “What’s in it for me?”

But the best reason to be a more giving entrepreneur isn’t selfish at all.

As entrepreneurs, we have a great deal of power. We have the resources of our businesses, our online platform, and we have our personal skillset. Together, that means the capability to bring big ideas together and turn them into realities.

The world needs entrepreneurs – and the more of us who are actively giving our time and expertise, the better place the world will be for everyone.


  1. Nicholas Tart says:

    Very good, Scheidies. Perhaps in the giving nature of this article, I noticed that you didn’t list any of the generous things you’ve done for other people, including myself. Thanks for all that you do.

    • Nick Scheidies says:

      You’re welcome. I decided not to talk about my personal experiences because I didn’t want to distract from the message. With that said, it was recent experiences I’ve had with giving that inspired this article. I feel very fortunate lately.

  2. Melissa says:

    Thanks for the article, Nick! I’ve found both in my 9-5 job and blogging experience that giving goes a long way in not just growing your business, but putting good energy out there in world.

    • Nick Scheidies says:

      Absolutely — I think that it applies to all facets of life. The only reason this is about entrepreneurship specifically is because that’s what Income Diary is all about.

  3. I couldn’t agree more! Great article, thanks for giving it up!

  4. Carlos Ramos says:

    Hello Nick,

    I couldn’t agree more with you. I am a programmer (and my blog is about that topic) and I release all the content I make under the GPL licence so everyone can use it without having to deal with Copyright issues.
    Also, as a programmer, I make use of some other open source graphics for some of my projects: I use free content, I give free content.

    Also, is worth of note that free content creates more content, contrary to paid and strong licensed content.

    • Nick Scheidies says:

      Yeah — I think the open nature of the Internet has made giving more essential than ever. I love the way that free content and software causes increased productivity and creativity globally. Thanks for contributing to that.

  5. I do believe our deeds (good or bad) will eventually catch up with us. It might take a few minutes, a lifetime or the next lifetime (lol) but they eventually do.

  6. Sheyi Shobayo says:

    Nick, this is Nickspiring!

    Law of Karma works especially if you are the kind of person that likes to do good.

    I prefer to retweet other people’s tweet than ask pple to do it for me.


    • Nick Scheidies says:

      Nickspiring? I’ve never heard that one before. I think that strategy will get you far in social media. There are so many people looking just after their self-interest online that when somebody like you is looking to help others, they take notice.

  7. Very well spoken, I like the mindset you have behind this article. This kind of post links to more than just an online business, but it can be applied everywhere. Any advice on how you would start networking from square one?

    • Nick Scheidies says:

      Square one? Commenting on blogs like this is a good place to start (check out Nicholas Tart’s article on this site for more info on that).

  8. Wicked D says:

    Awesome post, Michael, and I couldn’t agree more. I work in the music industry and try and teach young bands this philosophy.

    • Nick Scheidies says:

      That sounds cool. I find the same principles apply with my band. The better you the treat venues, sound guys, and other musicians, the more opportunities you’ll find.

  9. Edoardo Moreni says:

    Yeah, it is practically what I constantly say to the people with which I talk about entrepreneurship. The more you help and give advice, the more you get connections. The good thing is that when you start a new business you can rely on the connections you built before. I experimented it several time and I am proud to have helped those people who helped me back.

  10. Abigail Johnson Akingbade says:

    Great post Nick. But I had this thought Only give when you are in the position to give. In my opinion, it is discouraging to give when you aren’t really in the position to give. Like giving your last $5 away when you have no money to pay for dinner. I think giving should be when you expect nothing in return and your intentions are genuine. In some ways, people can take advantage of your kindness if you give your last too often. Give with a open heart but look at others motives. Just a side thought I had when reading this post. Thanks for sharing!

  11. Dan Sumner says:

    Nice article Nick, I also blog and try to provide great free information as well. The returns are great when people thank you for helping them.

    It also builds up trust and respect. It’s easier to sell products and services with trust.

    I read ‘the go giver’ a while ago and it’s really made an impact.

    Thanks Nick,


  12. @MichaelEFear says:

    Excellent article Nick!

    It’s one of those topics where you can’t prove the ROI, but you know its there! Very similar to Gary Vaynerchuk’s Thank You Economy!

    Once again, loved it!

  13. Rebecca says:

    I took a course in college studying Robert Cialdini’s book about persuasion. His theories are so true. I’m new to blogging, and your website has been instrumental in helping me get started. Thank you so much for all of the great advice. I always look forward to your updates.

  14. Abdulazeez Idiaro says:

    Its greàt been an entrepreneur and giving a lot back to the society. Truly, it can be challenging, I mean really challenging, but over time, it always pay. Our is a testimony to this. Upon setting up the website,its aimed at helping Nigerians, but now, its now featured on local and international websites, magazine, newspaper and earning me respect and recognition.

  15. Warren Kuan says:

    Hi nick,
    Thanks for this great post, very meaningful!
    “The world needs entrepreneurs” (a responsible one)

    I do compose songs.Really great to meet you here.

    Best Regards,
    Looking forward 😉

  16. Chris | Sminso says:

    Great read! Its sad that so few people that make it big online realize this! People are all about giving when they are small and getting started, but once they “make it” its no longer a 2 way street (for most) and its all about what you can do for them (buy their products). Great post!

  17. Paul McNeal says:

    Nick – Excellent article. This follows the strapline of Business Network International (BNI) – Giver’s Gain. “The givers gain philosophy, when applied to small business networking, helps business function at their best, as the groups works together to give each other bring in new customers. When people focus on others instead of themselves in business networks, it will create an image of one who helps other people. Others will in return want to help them. Thus the givers are also gaining from the experience. Since has been a proven, positive way to improve your business, many of the small business networking organizations have adopted the idea of “givers gain” as their motto.” -Wikipedia

  18. awesome post….sir

  19. Wonderful words of inspiration…it can be fun but frustrating starting out. Any books you would recommend?

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